> she’s a control freak. she can’t let anyone else make her cum. she can’t let anyone be better than her, smarter than her, funnier.
The female orgasm is something superfluous and also unsexing. The female orgasm is almost always nothing but a product of the stimulation of the clitoris, which is the same organ as the glans in men, so there isn’t really a female orgasm so much as there is a male orgasm and an incidental male orgasm in women. There is a much higher rate or orgasm in women through masturbation than through sex, and women who have clitorises further away from their vagina tend to have less orgasms during sex if any. Orgasming as a woman is almost as deviant and hedonistic as anal sex, because it is completely vestigial and not even a female trait. When women want men to make them cum in sex, they are losing control of their self control and allowing themselves to be unsexed by essentially having a male orgasm. This loss of control is represented metaphorically in the loss of control of their bladders during orgasm, which people erroneously distinguish as “squirting” (it is literally almost entirely urine).
For men, it is quite different. Because the male orgasm is actually necessary for the continuation of the human race, we produce sperm all the time and if we don’t ejaculate we will just end up developing blue balls or ejaculating at night. I don’t mean to attack the nofap crowd but even they experience frequent nighttime evacuations of their seed. Women on the other hand could go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm and not even feel it. Women tend to get horny on a monthly cycle (ovulation) while men’s horniness is much more like the error function. It only goes up but there is a limit to how horny you can get.
What I’m really trying to say is, this woman is in the correct mentality. Women should be embarrassed of their orgasming and should not want it to happen during sex, and when it does happen it means they lost the sex. Every time a woman orgasms she has lost the sex, not won it.
I have the same question as Hobe… It’s not that I haven’t seen many uglier people, it’s just that you look like a normal human being who has been edited to look ugly in a funny way with some sort of image editing software or filter
The clitoris being an underdeveloped glans and squirting being almost entirely urine are so well known that I assume those aren’t the things you’re contesting.
But please, dear internet crack whore with your raunchy articles, lecture me on how you are so very smart and I am so very dumb based on your n=1 experience as a human fleshlight. Harlot.
That's cute pumpkin. I'm a dude. Which if you read any of my posts you would have figured out.
You do realize that all erogenous zones are nerve endings that lead to the brain right? Hence wet dreams. Orgasms are a chemical cocktail released in the brain, commonly stimulated by nerve endings, but not required. Believe it or not, women (and men) can cum from getting fucked in the ass. Women can come from ripple play. You can also isolate the g-spot without stimulating the labia, which in turn stimulates the clitoris.
Also ejaculations and orgasms are different things.
I don't have time to educate you on how you loosely put together your slop based on one article you read and no life experience.
You’re a dude? That’s extremely sad. Also yes, I am aware of stories of women who cum from nipple play, or men who cum with no penile stimulation, and even paralyzed people whose neck becomes their erogenous zone, but these are the exception and not the rule. The g-spot quite literally has never been demonstrated to exist scientifically.
Notice how your response cites nothing. It’s just your headcanon as some internet coomer
what the fuck? 😂😂 Women should be embarassed of orgasming because… the clit is like the glans? who cares if a damn orgasm is male or female whend we start genderin damn bodily responses 😂
>I don’t mean to attack the nofap crowd but even they experience frequent nighttime evacuations of their seed.
the whole point of nofap is more so being against porn really and even then wet dreams are taken as normal unless you’re particularly serious and see it as spirits stealing your semen
No, which is precisely why relying on the scientific method it’s important. It’s still important even if you are female, becaus you have no clue whether or not your personal experience is reflective of the experiences of other women
You know nothing about being a woman though, and you're using science to confirm what you already think. Also, how do you know that your experience as a man reflects all men?
I never said my experience as a man reflects all men. Also, nothing about how a woman feels really even comes into consideration in this argument. If you lose an arm, you might feel like you still have it — a very well-known phenomenon. You may even feel pain in it. But this pain is an illusion, just like the g-spot. And you only know it is an illusion through observing the outside world, just as I am doing.
This is just not true. What a fucked up analogy and what a word salad you just spat out, but typical. Women have feelings just as men do. And you can't observe how someone else feels when I can already tell you probably have no empathy.
This awful “male” specimen is so full of crap, Mary, the site he quotes from - researchgate.net says “There is no editorial review board, nor does ResearchGate require that articles be peer reviewed, although they may be. Since it is an academic social network with no provision for vetting the articles, evaluate each source carefully.“ So his sources are just what you said, whatever he wants to mirror, not necessarily science. I’m always cracking up at gross dudes like this trying to do everything but work on themselves. Anyway sending you love and let’s hope this nasty incel doesn’t start shooting women out of frustration, damn man, I wanna puke 😂
Oh wow lollll thanks for telling me! I didn't even bother to click on the articles becausw I knew that at the very least what he had extrapolated was false, but good to know the whole site is unreliable! Typical of his type 😅 and I totally agree it's honestly just entertaining at this point lmao! And thank you, sending love to you as well! And hopefully he does not! 😂😭
Jesus christ that title was something lol. Thought you went ape shit.
I'm going to be honest with you, I really like reading your blog as a case study (if it's even real but idc) but this is legit miserable. I don't envy you at all, but I do hope you find your way and if this is what makes you tick I can't judge. I guess artistic types just be like that sometimes.
God, my worst fear is a boy claiming to love me and having this perspective of me. It's not my fault I can't cum during sex and hearing about this girl makes me feel less alone in that. I love the idea of sex but when it's happening I kind of just lay there, I can't bring myself to dirty talk and enjoy it or get even close to finishing unless I'm lying on my stomach touching myself while it's happening. It's a genuine real struggle. In missionary I just kind of stare and try to smile like I'm having a good time. I try but it simply doesn't work. Even if I'm in love. I think this vulnerability is really valuable though and dudes and girls need to practice this type of vulnerability more often; no filters, no fear. Just the absolute worst, most honest underbelly of our thoughts. While I have no advice (sorry) I don't think cynicism and giving into the idea that she doesn't want to let anyone make her cum is helping. She could really want it. Intimacy is just difficult. I still sometimes run back and forth between the idea that something is wrong with me and my body and that other girls really can cum from penetration alone, and the idea that that whole concept is a lie made up by whores who are too deep into the "I need this man to love me so I'm going to be a really sexy freak and play along and pretend" thing. Maybe the girls you've been with who were "better" are just better at acting and joking themselves because it's easier to hear that you're good in bed than as stiff as a wooden plank. It has nothing to do with you or your dick and I'm sure you're a fine young man.
If you have the time my piece Duplicity is like the perfect other perspective on this and it's equally as cynical. You might find it annoying but you also might find some sort of enlightenment I don't know
The majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, it’s very well documented. I think it’s only about 20 percent or less that can orgasm from sex alone. Also I think a very high proportion of women fake orgasms, a lot higher than I expected when I discovered this, can’t remember, close to half even, or more. Look into it, and you’ll feel less worried about this. It’s mental, there’s been a narrative about what’s normal that’s completely untrue. It’s almost medieval — a lot of people still carry around a bunch of folk myths about women and sexuality.
The OP is a really mystery to me, why he’s so mystified. I hope people can leave the mystery behind and walk into the light lol. It’s not that complicated, most women’s clits are just too far from the vag to have a vaginal orgasm. It can be really traumatizing though when for years you’re taught to feel that you’re uptight and frigid for not cumming in this way.
There’s a huge gap between not orgasming from penetration alone and laying there staring at the ceiling like a weirdo.
The only justification for acting like that is female death grip or you’re on SSRIs and can’t feel your pussy. Idk I’ve never been with a girl who acted like that but I would 100% dip.
i actually didnt as it was more just an anecdotal/opinion based post with no research, but i was aware of this research. it does help me find comfort in my experience. thank u :)
Madwoman Mary McDermott replied “Having sex doesn't make me better than you, I'm just better than you regardless” and blocked me before I could start laughing. Sad! Will somebody please tell her that the only thing she’s better than me at is having a Bajajay and taking antidepressants ?
I've been off social media a long time and even when I was on it, I didn't look at anything related to identity. I've had sex though and that was enough to learn about myself. Probably can't say the same for you.
> she’s a control freak. she can’t let anyone else make her cum. she can’t let anyone be better than her, smarter than her, funnier.
The female orgasm is something superfluous and also unsexing. The female orgasm is almost always nothing but a product of the stimulation of the clitoris, which is the same organ as the glans in men, so there isn’t really a female orgasm so much as there is a male orgasm and an incidental male orgasm in women. There is a much higher rate or orgasm in women through masturbation than through sex, and women who have clitorises further away from their vagina tend to have less orgasms during sex if any. Orgasming as a woman is almost as deviant and hedonistic as anal sex, because it is completely vestigial and not even a female trait. When women want men to make them cum in sex, they are losing control of their self control and allowing themselves to be unsexed by essentially having a male orgasm. This loss of control is represented metaphorically in the loss of control of their bladders during orgasm, which people erroneously distinguish as “squirting” (it is literally almost entirely urine).
For men, it is quite different. Because the male orgasm is actually necessary for the continuation of the human race, we produce sperm all the time and if we don’t ejaculate we will just end up developing blue balls or ejaculating at night. I don’t mean to attack the nofap crowd but even they experience frequent nighttime evacuations of their seed. Women on the other hand could go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm and not even feel it. Women tend to get horny on a monthly cycle (ovulation) while men’s horniness is much more like the error function. It only goes up but there is a limit to how horny you can get.
What I’m really trying to say is, this woman is in the correct mentality. Women should be embarrassed of their orgasming and should not want it to happen during sex, and when it does happen it means they lost the sex. Every time a woman orgasms she has lost the sex, not won it.
ewwwww man 😷😷 you are so ill
Do you actually look like that or did you purposely disfigure yourself with faceapp or something
How does one come to the point of looking like you
I have the same question as Hobe… It’s not that I haven’t seen many uglier people, it’s just that you look like a normal human being who has been edited to look ugly in a funny way with some sort of image editing software or filter
I’m sure plenty of people get ill just looking at your face and they dont say a word about it
This is not only incorrect, it is one of the most spergy takes on sex I have seen.
Do yourself a favour and never address this subject again.
I said almost nothing controversial here, but I’ll link some sources.
Female orgasms are clitoral even when activated through vaginal penetration:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/324754734_The_clitoral_activation_paradox_-_Claimed_outcomes_from_different_methods_of_its_stimulation
Women who are unable to orgasm tend to have clitorises further away from the vagina:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/260167410_Clitoral_Size_and_Location_in_Relation_to_Sexual_Function_Using_Pelvic_MRI?_sg=menn4lMAUvKrYMZkskhgNgWLBMC9tM3ygnQHYQ7HqIBrHzTO4vZ0prhbcSJa3wJuvSTECGighzTLKys
Insufficient evidence of the existence of a vaginal g-spot:
https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article-abstract/9/3/719/6886637?redirectedFrom=fulltext
Only 20-30% of women can orgasm during sex without flicking their bean:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0272735800000696?via%3Dihub
The clitoris being an underdeveloped glans and squirting being almost entirely urine are so well known that I assume those aren’t the things you’re contesting.
But please, dear internet crack whore with your raunchy articles, lecture me on how you are so very smart and I am so very dumb based on your n=1 experience as a human fleshlight. Harlot.
That's cute pumpkin. I'm a dude. Which if you read any of my posts you would have figured out.
You do realize that all erogenous zones are nerve endings that lead to the brain right? Hence wet dreams. Orgasms are a chemical cocktail released in the brain, commonly stimulated by nerve endings, but not required. Believe it or not, women (and men) can cum from getting fucked in the ass. Women can come from ripple play. You can also isolate the g-spot without stimulating the labia, which in turn stimulates the clitoris.
Also ejaculations and orgasms are different things.
I don't have time to educate you on how you loosely put together your slop based on one article you read and no life experience.
You’re a dude? That’s extremely sad. Also yes, I am aware of stories of women who cum from nipple play, or men who cum with no penile stimulation, and even paralyzed people whose neck becomes their erogenous zone, but these are the exception and not the rule. The g-spot quite literally has never been demonstrated to exist scientifically.
Notice how your response cites nothing. It’s just your headcanon as some internet coomer
Don't need to. I have convergent evidence. It is what you get from experience.
But go ahead and read your papers and talk about women in the abstract.
Cheers.
Kinda weird how you read so much about genatlia but okay
I’m a sophisticated man
Nah man, you're just addicted to porn.
Blud is called “shit” 💀💀💩💩🗣️🔥
he is literally known for “Never Goon”
Sure of course you are!
Sectionalism is correct and has won the debate
what the fuck? 😂😂 Women should be embarassed of orgasming because… the clit is like the glans? who cares if a damn orgasm is male or female whend we start genderin damn bodily responses 😂
Did your fat wife force you to type this out
mhm. alongside my whore daughter and whatever else your chronically online porn brained mind is projectin onto me
Uhh. Its a yes or no question
No dawg 😂
have you ever thought women can and should approach sex and pleasure however the hell they want rather than making embarrassing statements like these
Your statement is more embarrassing by far. At least his was interesting.
Sectionalism you are the voice of a generation
>I don’t mean to attack the nofap crowd but even they experience frequent nighttime evacuations of their seed.
the whole point of nofap is more so being against porn really and even then wet dreams are taken as normal unless you’re particularly serious and see it as spirits stealing your semen
How do you know how it feels to be female? Were you female before?
No, which is precisely why relying on the scientific method it’s important. It’s still important even if you are female, becaus you have no clue whether or not your personal experience is reflective of the experiences of other women
You know nothing about being a woman though, and you're using science to confirm what you already think. Also, how do you know that your experience as a man reflects all men?
I never said my experience as a man reflects all men. Also, nothing about how a woman feels really even comes into consideration in this argument. If you lose an arm, you might feel like you still have it — a very well-known phenomenon. You may even feel pain in it. But this pain is an illusion, just like the g-spot. And you only know it is an illusion through observing the outside world, just as I am doing.
This is just not true. What a fucked up analogy and what a word salad you just spat out, but typical. Women have feelings just as men do. And you can't observe how someone else feels when I can already tell you probably have no empathy.
This awful “male” specimen is so full of crap, Mary, the site he quotes from - researchgate.net says “There is no editorial review board, nor does ResearchGate require that articles be peer reviewed, although they may be. Since it is an academic social network with no provision for vetting the articles, evaluate each source carefully.“ So his sources are just what you said, whatever he wants to mirror, not necessarily science. I’m always cracking up at gross dudes like this trying to do everything but work on themselves. Anyway sending you love and let’s hope this nasty incel doesn’t start shooting women out of frustration, damn man, I wanna puke 😂
Sectionalism is correct and has won the debate
What are you even talking about? The amount projection of this gaggle of people triggered by a sperglord’s clit take is alarming.
You didn’t need to weigh in.
Oh wow lollll thanks for telling me! I didn't even bother to click on the articles becausw I knew that at the very least what he had extrapolated was false, but good to know the whole site is unreliable! Typical of his type 😅 and I totally agree it's honestly just entertaining at this point lmao! And thank you, sending love to you as well! And hopefully he does not! 😂😭
Females are Male 1.0, Males are Male 2.0
Jesus christ that title was something lol. Thought you went ape shit.
I'm going to be honest with you, I really like reading your blog as a case study (if it's even real but idc) but this is legit miserable. I don't envy you at all, but I do hope you find your way and if this is what makes you tick I can't judge. I guess artistic types just be like that sometimes.
When the tortured artist tortures himself in pursuit of his art 🤯
I am definitely on a watchlist just for reading this.
God, my worst fear is a boy claiming to love me and having this perspective of me. It's not my fault I can't cum during sex and hearing about this girl makes me feel less alone in that. I love the idea of sex but when it's happening I kind of just lay there, I can't bring myself to dirty talk and enjoy it or get even close to finishing unless I'm lying on my stomach touching myself while it's happening. It's a genuine real struggle. In missionary I just kind of stare and try to smile like I'm having a good time. I try but it simply doesn't work. Even if I'm in love. I think this vulnerability is really valuable though and dudes and girls need to practice this type of vulnerability more often; no filters, no fear. Just the absolute worst, most honest underbelly of our thoughts. While I have no advice (sorry) I don't think cynicism and giving into the idea that she doesn't want to let anyone make her cum is helping. She could really want it. Intimacy is just difficult. I still sometimes run back and forth between the idea that something is wrong with me and my body and that other girls really can cum from penetration alone, and the idea that that whole concept is a lie made up by whores who are too deep into the "I need this man to love me so I'm going to be a really sexy freak and play along and pretend" thing. Maybe the girls you've been with who were "better" are just better at acting and joking themselves because it's easier to hear that you're good in bed than as stiff as a wooden plank. It has nothing to do with you or your dick and I'm sure you're a fine young man.
If you have the time my piece Duplicity is like the perfect other perspective on this and it's equally as cynical. You might find it annoying but you also might find some sort of enlightenment I don't know
why did I even write this
The majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, it’s very well documented. I think it’s only about 20 percent or less that can orgasm from sex alone. Also I think a very high proportion of women fake orgasms, a lot higher than I expected when I discovered this, can’t remember, close to half even, or more. Look into it, and you’ll feel less worried about this. It’s mental, there’s been a narrative about what’s normal that’s completely untrue. It’s almost medieval — a lot of people still carry around a bunch of folk myths about women and sexuality.
The OP is a really mystery to me, why he’s so mystified. I hope people can leave the mystery behind and walk into the light lol. It’s not that complicated, most women’s clits are just too far from the vag to have a vaginal orgasm. It can be really traumatizing though when for years you’re taught to feel that you’re uptight and frigid for not cumming in this way.
There’s a huge gap between not orgasming from penetration alone and laying there staring at the ceiling like a weirdo.
The only justification for acting like that is female death grip or you’re on SSRIs and can’t feel your pussy. Idk I’ve never been with a girl who acted like that but I would 100% dip.
And if you said all this in the post already I very much apologize for the femme-splaining unnecessary comment… ;)
i actually didnt as it was more just an anecdotal/opinion based post with no research, but i was aware of this research. it does help me find comfort in my experience. thank u :)
i hope this isn’t what the future of substack looks like
Is Reddit down or something? What's going on?
They updated the app and totally changed the experience it’s like a combination of Reels and the MSN home page it’s terrible.
you met the 'A' in LGBTIQA+ which is either asexual or autistic
I still haven’t seen proof that asexual people with intact, functioning genitalia exist
Madwoman Mary McDermott replied “Having sex doesn't make me better than you, I'm just better than you regardless” and blocked me before I could start laughing. Sad! Will somebody please tell her that the only thing she’s better than me at is having a Bajajay and taking antidepressants ?
She blocked me as well
You exposed her asexual facade when you said “… Unless?”; she bit her lip and the cobwebs in her lady parts were swiftly dusted. True!
She liked that comment before blocking me
Right here bruh!
I mean like a scientific study, not n=1
Study me then I don't know
I thought you were asexual… And yet here you are coming onto me!
I'm kidding, obviously, but you're a humorless incel loll
I've been off social media a long time and even when I was on it, I didn't look at anything related to identity. I've had sex though and that was enough to learn about myself. Probably can't say the same for you.
“Im asexual even though I’ve had sex and having sex means im better than you, btw im asexual” Lois?
Having sex doesn't make me better than you, I'm just better than you regardless
🏳️🌈
note: yuzu is not her real name, obviously
I like to think that this is an art project but chances are it is not
I like to think that this is an incel's sex fantasy but chances are it is not
Its not
If you read the comments Yuzu, open your heart and deliver us
Just remember I was here before your million substack followers ✊🏿
take the r🦍 pill…
🙁
if it feels like rape then it probably is, so you should stop that
This is written by an Incel right ?? What sex would be like if they knew or spoke to a girl ??
If you need food mate I've got you covered. Check your dms, I'd throw a grand fête in your honor anytime
this is fake and incredibly heterosexual
Faggot ahh negroe thinks he's entitled to a WASP-only space!! Gtfo bitch!!
please don't harrass me sir
Saar do nod reedeem
i'm pretty sure i'm whiter than you are
You say that yet you're an 'elite human capital' believer... I haven't seen something that brown since July!!
why would i be an elite human capital believer?